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I’ve been a writer most of my life, but didn’t admit it until 2009.
But when a concussion ended my sales career, I decided to finally keep a promise to a dying friend to write a book.
But when a concussion ended my sales career, I decided to finally keep a promise to a dying friend to write a book.
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