“Forming Community” – AIDS@30
The current issue of Chicago’s gay weekly, Windy City Times, includes a guest column I wrote, “Forming Community”.
As part of their 9-month “AIDS@30” series, I reflected on my time as a fundraiser in the AIDS community, and what it was like to be a straight woman in a mostly gay environment.
You’ll want to bookmark this website, http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/aids.php to read the entire series. If you are of a certain age, you’ll remember a lot. If not, well, you might learn a valuable history lesson or two.
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